This post is going to focus on how we as men can use sex dolls and a variety of other sex toys to ‘train’ to be better in bed.
A large portion of this article is going to be dedicated to stamina enhancement. Whether you suffer from severe premature ejaculation or if you just want to have better control over your orgasm, we’ll cover both below.
Another focal point of this article will be on how to implement these sex tools to become better skilled at different positions. More on that further on.
First things first. How can we use the various naughty tools at our disposal to learn how to last longer in bed?
One of the key components to this is lack of pressure. We’ll be using things that simulate the real feel of a woman’s vagina without actually having the rest of her there. This alleviates any anxiety or performance anxiety that is likely to occur if she was actually present.
Once these skills can be learned in her absence, they can much more easily be carried over to when you’re actually with her. Remember that any type of stress or anxiety, especially over things such as PE, are debilitating to a man’s sex life and are an absolute erection killer.
In the beginning phases, they must be avoided at all costs. Hence the non-judgemental tools we will use.
One of the best possible items you can pick up for these purposes will be a Fleshlight. These amazing creations are about the size of a flashlight, hence the name, and are made up of a material that feels strikingly similar to a real vagina.
They are also molded after the porn star of your choice. They literally take a picture perfect mold of the girl’s vagina and then replicate that so it not only feels like she really would in bed, it looks like she does in your favorite porno.
These come in the standard vagina of course, but they also have them in anal and oral models as well! Just awesome…
Apply a bit of lube after warming it up and hot damn, it really, truly does feel like your in some hot snatch.
The guys that made this ingenious device even have a specialty one called the ‘Stamina Training Unit’ or STU for short. Perfect for what we’re after here.
Another item for your sex training tool shed is the Autoblow. It’s pretty similar to the above description of the Fleshlight except for, you guessed it, it gives you an automatic blowjob!
Shaped like a woman’s mouth and made with real feel materials, it automatically rides up and down on your hog as hard and as fast as you want it too. No more tired arms!
Other things we could use are discussed elsewhere on this site such as vibrators and prostate stimulators, but for this particular article, we are focused on getting used to lasting longer inside a woman’s vagina they won’t come into this discussion. As a side note, they can be used once the basics are down to enhance your stamina even more…
So it’s all about getting the right tools and then practice, practice, practice!
The basic protocol would be to just start slow. Lube up well and use a slow motion and really get a sense of how your body is feeling and responding to the stimulation. Work yourself up slowly to orgasm and then back yourself off when you’re getting close.
It’s critical to get to know your arousal rate and to be able to know when you need to slow down or stop stimulation. Practice this enough with deep breathing and the time between the start of stimulation and your point of no return (ejaculatory inevitability) will lengthen. Assuming, of course, you are also practicing your standard AND reverse Kegels to strengthen your ‘sex muscles’.
The other point I wanted to focus on in this article is how to use these to make yourself a more skilled partner in different positions.
This can be accomplished in a number of ways. There are various attachments you can get for things like the Fleshlight that look like a long staff that can be positioned at different angles to simulate different positions.
But really most, if not all, of these can be simulated using your bed and a few pillows. For example:
Want to get more control over your ejaculation when your fucking your girl doggy style? Insert the pocket pussy of your choosing between your mattress and box spring and kneel down on your floor. Adjust the height with pillows if necessary.
This will allow you to be in the same position you would be in for doing it doggy style with your girl. This way you can pound away without pressure and learn how best to position yourself to take the strain off your muscles to prevent early ejaculation. This is also a great way to practice deep breathing and ingrain that into your head as that is crucial to lasting longer during sex.
You can also slide it between two pillows on your bed and suspend yourself over it just like you would over a woman to simulate the missionary position.
For the cowgirl position, you’ll have to be a bit more manual and use your hand like you were jerking yourself off. Just close your eyes as you lie back and imagine she’s riding you while you learn how to control your sexual energy.
The Auto blow would be ideal for developing stamina for longer blowjobs. I know how hard it can be not to come right away as soon as that warm, wet mouth and tongue start sliding up and down your shaft but we want to feel that for as long as possible!
And last but not least, life-size sex dolls can be used for perhaps your final and most realistic test! Position them however you want and just practice, practice, practice!
Any other tips or questions you may have in regards to using sex toys to develop more sexual stamina I would love to hear!